To that spouse who constantly provides that shoulder, good job. You are a rockstar on a daily basis. I can only imagine it is a difficult, all-consuming job.
I don't know if I am strong enough to be that person.
com·pel (km-pl) tr.v. com·pelled, com·pel·ling, com·pels 1. To force, drive, or constrain 2. To necessitate or pressure by force; exact 3. To exert a strong, irresistible force on; sway --- Many are compelled to get married or have kids. This is a blog why I have no desire to do either. --- Some are funny and others serious, but all are convincing.